(Originally published by me HERE.)
"I'm struggling with my faith."
"The experience increased my
faith."
"My faith gets me through the day."
Have you ever heard or
said anything like the above sentences? Here's my problem with them: they mean
almost nothing. Why? Because this way of speaking makes faith into an abstract concept. The word can be applied to
anyone or anything. It is, at least, one step removed from the object of that
faith.
I don't like talking about faith as if it is a thing in and of
itself. To talk about our faith makes us sound very spiritual, but our faith is
only so good as the object or person in which it is placed. If I have faith in a
chair to hold me up when I sit in it, my faith means nothing if someone came
along before I got there and removed all the screws. If I have faith in God, my
faith is only so good as my relationship with Him as a Being.
That last
sentence is very important. Read it again. My faith is only so good as my
relationship with God as a BEING. It is essential that we recognize God as a
BEING, as opposed to a BELIEF. Many of us good, well-meaning, "spiritual"
Christians find the fact that God is an actual Being very inconvenient. That
means He has a personality. He has opinions (that I may not agree with). He
experiences emotions. He thinks about things differently than I do. He has His
own goals and methods of accomplishing them. He works on His own timetable.
(That last one is a big problem for me, actually!)
It's much easier to
think of Him as a belief and just try to fit that belief into our world and our
plans as best we can. That way, I can go to church and "fellowship" and try to
be good and even pray once in a while, but I don't really have to rearrange my
entire life to fit with Someone else's agenda. I don't have to sacrifice my
lifestyle (as long as it's "good enough" to sooth my conscience) to step out of
my comfort zone into the unknown realm of relying on a Being I can't see. I
don't have to study the Word in it's minute details to learn how to hear His
voice in my life and then wait and listen for Him to speak to me.
Adding
god to my life is so much easier and less messy than aligning myself to God.
But, do I really need another belief? I have lots of them. I believe
dark chocolate is better than milk chocolate. I believe it's scary to drive on
icy roads. I believe Nietzsche would have made a very good Satanist. I believe
my husband would get upset if I went out and bought a car without his knowledge.
I believe my dog is prettier than my neighbor's dog. (Tru dat.)
Do I
really need one more belief? Isn't it better to have a relationship?
Think
of it this way. What would you prefer--to believe that you have a spouse who
loves you or to actually have a spouse who loves you?
I want the spouse.
I want the love. I want the messy. I want the challenge and the disagreements
and the making up. I want the sounding board for my insane, crazy emotions and
my deep, profound thoughts about the meaning of life. I want the discovery of
the depth of who he is--weird or not. I want the teasing and the wrestling and
the love making and the rolling of the eyes. I want it all. I don't want just a
belief in him, I want HIM.
Without Him, I'm stuck with just...
me.
The difference I'm talking about is a difference in the kind
of knowledge we have a right to claim. It's the difference between propositional
knowledge ("I know that God exists.") and interpersonal knowledge ("I know
God.")
Knowing a fact is propositional knowledge and it's fine, for what
it is, but it's very impersonal. It's no more important than knowing the moon
exists. OK. Got it, but what does that really matter for my day-to-day?
Knowing a person is interpersonal knowledge (IPK) and it is a vastly
different experience than knowing a fact. It's the difference between
knowing Shaquille O'Neal exists and knowing Shaquille O'Neal. Which is more
dynamic? More life-changing? More involved? More intrusive into our
world?
So, when we think of using the word "faith," perhaps we should
instead use the Name of the Person---the BEING--we really mean: Jesus Christ.
"I'm really struggling in my relationship with Jesus
Christ."
"The experience with Jesus increased my dependence on
Him."
"Jesus Christ gets me through the day."
Suddenly, these
statements start to make sense. I want to hear more. I want a glimpse inside a
relationship that is dynamic and real. I want to know this Person,
too.
Closing thought:
The word "faith" isn't the only word we
use to objectify God. Consider the words/terms: "moral right," "religion,"
"justice," "hope," etc. There are many, many ways we push God away through
the way we conceive of Him and substitute abstract words for Him. When we think
of Him as a belief, our word choices betray us. When know Him as a Being, our
word choices reflect that relationship. This week, listen to the way people talk
about God. Is He a belief or a Being to them? How about to you?
